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My Ex-Partner Has Consulted a Mediator – What
Should I Do?

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If your ex has reached out to a mediator to discuss matters following your separation, you may receive an invitation to attend a meeting, commonly referred to as a Mediation Information and Assessment Meeting (MIAM). This is a typical step in the mediation process, indicating that your ex-partner has either attended or will attend a MIAM. You can learn more about these meetings here.

If you receive communication from a mediator, we recommend verifying that they are an Accredited. Discover why it’s important to choose an Accredited Registered Mediator here.

Once you’ve confirmed the mediator’s registration, reach out to them to discuss the invitation or to set up an appointment.

If you or your ex-partner do not qualify for legal aid, you will need to cover the meeting costs. While this might be an unexpected expense, attending a MIAM can ultimately save you money, as the insights provided in this initial meeting may help you resolve issues in the most cost-effective manner for you and your family.

Generally, you should visit the mediator that your ex-partner has consulted. However, if you have concerns about their suitability like if there’s a conflict of interest due to a personal connection, you can opt for a different mediator. It’s wise to discuss this with your ex-partner and the mediator they contacted to explain your reasons for seeking a new mediator. Ensure that the new mediator is Accredited.

If the mediator who reached out to you is not Accredited, you should seek out an Accredited Mediator. Again, it’s a good idea to inform your ex-partner about your reasons for wanting to consult a different mediator.